So, basically my thingys with people kind of always follow the same plotline. So yeah, at least the sex thing I figured out. Sex for me is also really mediocre, it happens but it laks everything that makes me want to go back to it. In a sense: if the possiblity presented I would do it, but I would never actively seek somone out. Like objectively, I thought I could ** that, but it always was more of a general possiblity mixed with a compliment to that person and less wanting. now that its not sexual, because I not once thought I want to ** or touch that. So I hoped you guys could help me figure out if my interest in other people amounts to romantic attraction or not. Despite being interested in people I never had the drive to be with them (could be issues talking tho). I'm still not quite sure if I am part of the aro community, even if I think I am. The Asexuality and Aromantic Spectrum Discord Server is one of the largest Discord communities for aspec folk.Breaking these rules could not only earn you a ban from /r/aromantic but you risk suspension of your Reddit account. While we don't wish to turn away those who need support, this subreddit will not be able to provide the help you need. Please consider reaching out on /r/suicidewatch or /r/depression instead. RULE 4: No discussion of suicide/self-harm. Things like name-calling or personal attacks are not allowed. If you are having a disagreement with someone, you are expected to engage in civil discussion. Comments that are vitriolic and unnecessarily spiteful/rude will be removed. If you have nothing nice to say, then do not comment. In particular, posting about aromatic things, aromatherapy etc was funny in the beginning but will now be treated as off-topic and removed. RULE 2: Posts must be related to aromanticism. You're expected to listen and do your best to be considerate and open-minded here. It is okay to ask questions if you don't understand aromanticism, and we understand sometimes people don't realize they are saying hurtful things.
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